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About This Worksheet

This worksheet was designed to help me organize my thoughts, prepare emotionally and practically, and ensure every detail is perfect before I propose.

Whether I execute a grand gesture or an intimate moment, this will guide me through all the essentials.

Dec 16, 2024

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Step 1: Clarify My Intentions

1. Why do I want to marry Meredith?

Write down my reasons—this will help me solidify my commitment and express my feelings clearly during the proposal.

2. How do I envision our future together?

Reflect on our shared goals, values, and dreams.

Step 2: Gather the Essentials

1. The Ring

• Have I selected the ring? ☐ Yes ☐ No
  • Ring details:
  • Style/Design:
  • Size:
  • Budget:

2. Permissions & Blessings

Do I want to ask for her parents’ or family’s blessing? ☐ Yes ☐ No

• If yes, have I scheduled a time to talk to them? ☐ Yes ☐ No
  • Notes: ______________________

Step 3: Plan the Proposal Setting

1. Location:

• Where do I want to propose? ☐ A special location for both of us (e.g., first date spot) ☐ A scenic or romantic setting (e.g., beach, park, rooftop) ☐ At home (intimate and personal) ☐ Other: ______________________________ 2. Details to Arrange: • ☐ Decor (e.g., candles, flowers, lighting) • ☐ Music (playlist or live music): ___________________________ • ☐ Photographer/videographer (to capture the moment): __________________ • ☐ Backup plan in case of weather or unforeseen issues: __________________

3. Timing: • Proposed date and time: _____________________________ • Why is this timing significant? __________________________

Step 4: Personalize the Proposal

1. How will I make it meaningful for Meredith?

   • Incorporate something unique to our relationship (e.g., shared memory, inside joke):

   2. What will I say?

Write a draft or outline of my speech:

Any special gifts or surprises to accompany the proposal?

☐ Yes: _____________________________ ☐ No

Step 5: Practice & Final Details

1. Have you practiced what you’re going to say? ☐ Yes ☐ No
2. Have you rehearsed any logistics (e.g., where to kneel, cues for music or photos)? ☐ Yes ☐ No
3. Do you have someone helping you coordinate the proposal (friend, planner, etc.)? ☐ Yes: ____________________________ ☐ No

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Step 6: Celebrate the Moment

1. Post-Proposal Plans: • What do you want to do immediately after she says yes? ☐ Celebrate privately (e.g., dinner, champagne) ☐ Gather friends and family for a surprise celebration ☐ Other: ________________________________
2. Announcement Plans: • How will you share the news? ☐ Social media ☐ Calls to close family/friends ☐ Other: _______________________________

Final Checklist: • ☐ Ring is ready. • ☐ Proposal location confirmed. • ☐ Speech written and rehearsed. • ☐ Photographer/videographer booked (if applicable). • ☐ Backup plan finalized. • ☐ Post-proposal celebration planned.

Take a Moment to Reflect

Write a quick note to yourself about why this moment matters:

When you’re ready to make the leap, let this worksheet remind you that you’ve planned every detail to show Meredith just how much she means to you.